There are many differences between talking to gay men in real-time, and chatting with men in free gay sex chat rooms. No matter where you do it, gay personals will always present the challenge of seeing through others' deceptions and games - not necessarily always bad things; they do make the process interesting - and knowing when a game is really bold-faced lies some shorties just won't give up. The differences all lie in how to tell what is real and what is not. In real-time, we've all got a lifetime of experience in reading people, and - whether we've developed it further or not - a lot of it is basic instinct.

Unfortunately, free gay sex chat rooms are a new experience for all of us. Very few have been using the net to chat with others sexually or for relationship purposes before the nineties. The younger guys in the gay sex personals world have the edge over older folks who could read a person in real-time a lot better. When attempting to start competing in the gay sex chat world, it is best to pay attention to your gut, the same way you would in the real world: if a man is tripping over himself, drop him. He's full of it.

One of the key differences here is that in the real world of dating gay men, once you know a guy is lame, you still give him the respect of not advertising it when you see him with someone else, if you even pay him attention at all. While talking in free gay sex chat rooms, though, if you go into a private chat with a guy and he books as soon as anything beyond getting together to make free gay porn comes up, you know he's no good. But when you see him throwing his game at others, you should feel free to call him on it. No one's getting a free dinner here, after all.